Don’t: pray beg cry wail hope wish dream Do: observe prepare hide fight make the hard calls travel light, Don’t: remember how it used to be what you used to have who you used to love Do: think about now think about tomorrow think about next week but no farther who is next to you are they friend or foe is there a difference how can you know for sure?, Don’t: search for a community Do: form a small and trusted community, Don’t: leave yourself vulnerable to outsiders Do: be willing to give small amounts of aid to needy and nonthreatening outsiders (but only when you have surplus and honestly is there such a thing anymore?), Don’t: kill your friends Unless: you have to kill your friends. Then do it. Just do it. Get it over with. Stop crying.